Lee and Paul | February 6, 2009

In response to the article, Your Side of the Bed or Mine,

desani4deri wrote:

“i think women can present more intimacy than man can do…think about our mother. “

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Tags: Dutch oven, intimacy, love, Relationship

Lee and Paul | February 5, 2009

Last week’s post on Thursday regarding relationships like corporations wasn’t very romantic. But let’s face it, society has built up love and couplings to be this biochemical explosion that can only be understood with a periodic table and a Bunsen burner. People talk about “having chemistry” with someone else as if that is the litmus test for all attraction. If they aren’t using scientific terms for pairing up with someone, then it becomes some magical mumbo jumbo of how a person saw fireworks or heard the perfect sonata when “the one” kissed them.

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Tags: choosing to love, intimacy, love, Sex

Lee and Paul | February 2, 2009

After 20 years of marriage, I can safely say Paul and I are very intimate. Most people will confuse intimacy and sex which is why we have such a high divorce rate and some people date like serial killers on a spree. Intimacy is the sharing of vulnerability. It is creating a level of honesty that only you two share. Now I know that many of you are saying, “Lee, WTF! Vulnerability, honesty, serial killers? This shit isn’t funny and it makes me feel weird in my stomach!” Relax people! Paul and I are committed to sharing our pearls of wisdom of how this relationship has worked and it will only pinch a little bit.

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Tags: bumping uglies, intimacy, love, Sex