Comments on: Why Get Married? http://coupledumb.com/2010/03/11/why-get-married/3950 How we screw up love, relationship, marriage, sex, family Wed, 23 May 2012 22:03:22 +0000 hourly 1 By: Miriam Alario http://coupledumb.com/2010/03/11/why-get-married/3950#comment-770 Miriam Alario Thu, 11 Mar 2010 17:23:53 +0000 http://coupledumb.com/?p=3950#comment-770 LOLOL Now where EVER did you find that stat I gave you? Is Rudgers a typo and did you mean Rutgers/Princeton? Here's another factor warping the ratios. Aren't many of the divorces for people who RE married and either made the same choice mistakes, or shifted SO far away fron their original choice that the new spouse is a bad fit to their own personality? How does one handle a spouse who believes that talking over issues (that come up) is re-hashing a fight, or who believes that seeking therapy is "airing one's dirty laundry" to strangers? LOLOL Now where EVER did you find that stat I gave you? Is Rudgers a typo and did you mean Rutgers/Princeton?

Here’s another factor warping the ratios. Aren’t many of the divorces for people who RE married and either made the same choice mistakes, or shifted SO far away fron their original choice that the new spouse is a bad fit to their own personality?

How does one handle a spouse who believes that talking over issues (that come up) is re-hashing a fight, or who believes that seeking therapy is “airing one’s dirty laundry” to strangers?

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